You say that I don't listen

That I don't give you no respect

You took your love to some other place

Now, what did you expect?

We made vows inside the church

To forgive each other's sins

But there are things I have to endure

Like the smell of another man's skin

If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what)

If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is

If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what)

If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is

You say you wanted children

And you would grow into a mother

But in my mind's eye, I would see you

In the arms of another

I am given to jealousy

I've been given to violence

But I could never raise a hand in my defence

So I suffer here in silence

If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what)

If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is

If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what)

If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is

I pray the waters of forgiveness

Will rain down on you and me

Just like newborn babies

In the cradle of a tree

And we will walk in righteousness

We will walk in rain and thunder

And what God has joined together here

Let no man put asunder

If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what)

If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is

If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what)

If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is

If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what)

If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is

If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what)

If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is